In 2013, New Yorker Nazma Khan started ‘World Hijab Day’ as a means of promoting religious tolerance and understanding. That is its aim. The method was to invite Muslim and non-Muslim women to don the hijab for a day. Five years later, the aim & method are going strong, and worldwide, Muslim women in over a hundred countries have adopted the method and promoted it in various ways. And as with anything, there are naysayers and postivists (interesting note here is that other antonyms for naysayer, suggested by the online Merriam Webster include Pollyanna, optimist, idealist, apologist, and sentimentalist).
So instead of walking a mile in my shoes, wear my scarf and walk/run/sit/shop/work/work out/eat/drink/be merry/be sad/be sick/ just be* for the day. Is it hot? Sometimes. Is it stifling? Not really. Is it scratchy? Sometimes. Does it stay on? Yes. By itself, sometimes with aids and accessories. Is it necessary? We’ll get back to that.
Hijab is now a generic term (like hoover & escalator – although it was never a brand, unless you consider that wearing a ‘hijab’ now brands a female for all to know that she’s Muslim). Originally, (and I suppose etymologically) Arabic for curtain or partition. Now, hijab refers to the headscarf worn by Muslim women.
I had great difficulty with this WHD thing. I looked on horrified as EldestNiece stylishly wrapped the hijab atop/around the head of a female garbed in a sleeveless top. A visual contradiction with a visceral slamming of a door in my head. But why? Why is that any different from a female in long sleeves with her hair uncovered? Or one in shorts & a cap? Bemusing. Confusing.
And worse, using phrases like “Oh don’t you look beautiful?” “Oh, see how it matches your outfit”, “It’s so elegant”, “You can wear this brooch with it – isn’t it lovely?” – all phrases that are geared towards outer appearance, and some sort of fashion-consciousness. And perhaps flamboyance?
And there I recognise my issue. My own self-issue.
What is the intention of WHD? What is my intention when I put on the hijab? What is the intention when persons don the hijab for WHD?
Allah’s Messenger says: “Verily, all actions are but driven by intention and for everyone is what he intended.”[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
Allah’s Messenger also said: “Certainly, Allah does not look at your shapes (appearance) or wealth. But He only looks at your hearts and deeds.”[Al-Bukhari and Muslim